So the newest concept that has come to my attention is “resetting your marriage.” As I stated before, nothing happens by chance. Last week as I was having a new screen protector put on my phone, I was talking to a friend who had also been going through a rough patch in his marriage.…… Continue reading Pressing the Reset Button
Why do I choose to stay? This is a thought that has been brewing in my mind for the last few days. I started this blog as a way to express some of the frustrations that I experience in my marriage, as well as the lessons I am learning. There have been times when I…… Continue reading Why I Chose to Stay
In case you missed it, I have embarked on a research project based on article I read to see how it changes the dynamics of my relationship with my husband. You can read about it here. Part 1 of the project is to go 31 consecutive days without saying “I love you,” and to instead…… Continue reading Part 1: My Love Experiment
Earlier this week, R&B singer Keke Wyatt posted on her Instagram page about her husband, Michael Jamar asking her for a divorce. When I heard that, it just broke my heart. I used to watch them on her show R&B Divas, and she spoke then about the baggage she brings to their marriage. Back then,…… Continue reading Living in a Toxic Marriage
Back in May, I started making a list of all the things my husband does that I am appreciative for. It’s taking some time, but I am now at 10 items. Why only 10? Because it is hard to see through my hurt and pain all the little things he has done for me that…… Continue reading Don’t Focus on the Bad. Look for the Good.
Being the scientist that I am, I am embarking on a new experiment/research project, but don’t tell my husband. I title it “How Regular Blow Jobs Changed My Husband and My Marriage.” Ok, I know some of you might say “Ewww, why?” And I know the feminists will be chomping at the bit. But, let’s…… Continue reading My Love Experiment
My husband has refused to go back to marriage counseling. So what did I do? I armed myself with books and articles and I’m playing counselor for both of us. I’m learning about myself and things that I tend to do that is not beneficial to the relationship. And I’m gaining more insights about him…… Continue reading Marriage Counseling